It has become a famous slogan from the fast-food restaurant Burger King to “have it your way.” This is in the spirit of our self-centered mindset in which we would all prefer to have things “our way.” Who could honestly not admit this? When contemplating religious belief, and in particular Christianity as well as other dualism-based religions such as Judaism and Islam, it is quite apparent upon close examination just how much those who maintain and adhere to these belief systems for each of these religions try to have things “their way,” which require them to have things “both ways.” I have addressed this before in other writings, and especially explore this idea more in an upcoming chapter in this book, “Morality,” but felt it was an important enough topic to address by itself in a separate chapter, since the more I contemplate religion and religious belief, the more clearly I see how rampant this “have it both ways” thinking permeates so much of theistic thought. In fact, theism by its very nature as the belief in separate, opposite, and independent “realities” of the “material” and the “spiritual” could not exist were it not for special pleading and the contradictions and double-standards their belief systems contain, as I have stated several times before in this book and in other writings.
The reason theists need to “have it both ways,” is because at bottom they cannot have both their religious beliefs in the supernatural, as well as knowledge of reality at the same time – of the “natural,” phenomenal world as we know it without having it “both ways.” This is quite evident when religious believers speak of their faith as though it were fact – something I explored at some length in the last chapter, and something I feel strongly enough about to explore further in this chapter. Because this faith-fact conflation is so widespread and is almost certainly unconscious in the minds of many, and because such a conflation is simply incorrect – faith is not necessarily fact, it is important we call people on it when they make this incorrect conflation by reminding them of the difference between faith and fact. To be fair, we almost certainly all do this to some extent in several areas of our lives – believing things to be fact when we don’t truly know or at least have good evidence to be justified in believing things as fact. But in the case of almost everything except religion we have corrective tools to check ourselves against reality to actually verify the truth of a given claim. That is the critical and important difference between the scientific method and religious faith. As stated previously in the last chapter, virtually no religious believer is honest enough with themselves to admit the fact that what they are actually doing with their religious convictions is calling something fact by simply believing it is true without knowing it is true – by simply asserting the truth of their position without demonstrating it to be true.
To paraphrase an eloquently related concept as stated by Greta Christina, with the notable exception of religion, in every other discipline in which hypotheses or assurances are made, you eventually have to pony up. At some point, the bill comes due. In other words, at some point the “bill” of faith in a hypothesis has to be “paid” – or verified as fact – in this life, and in this world. With religious claims it is quite convenient for the believer who does not wish their claims to be falsified, the bill never gets paid until after death – when we will only then supposedly “finally know” all of our faith claims are true, when we will finally and once and for all be vindicated our beliefs are factually correct, when we finally “see God” face-to-face. This is the supreme example of the non-falsifiability of religious claims. Of course, they cannot be falsified precisely because this “knowledge” only comes to us after death, when nobody can return to actually tell us about it and is something we ourselves cannot experience until after we die. That is why the concept of the afterlife is absolutely essential to religious belief since it is only then when the “truth” of religious faith is finally verified as fact. Without the afterlife, religious belief is never verified as fact. “Near-death” experiences cannot count as evidence for what supposedly “happens” after death, simply by virtue of the fact they are near death experiences, and not truly death experiences. Even if we could count on these near-death experiences as supposed “evidence” of what happens after death, we would still have to rely on the subjective experiences of individuals not verifiable by third parties. As we will explore in more depth later on, religious experiences are always things that go on inside the mind of the believer, or the stories of others we are told to take “on faith,” not things third parties can also experience and observe, which therefore cannot be falsified – cannot be shown to be true or false. These facts alone make it clear that religious belief is the subjective experience of the individual, and is not reflective of an “objective reality” that actually exists outside our minds. The fact so many varied religions and spiritual beliefs exist throughout the world – many of which contradict each other, only further demonstrates the non-objective, and therefore imaginary, subjective quality of religious faith.
Because religion is by its nature faith based, and not evidence based, it therefore has no factual basis against which to check the truth or falsity of its claims. That is the reason why the assertion of the “truth” of religious convictions is especially problematic. This non-falsifiability problem does not exist in many other areas of thought such as science, philosophy, logic, etc. These disciplines have correctives in place to verify the truth or falsity of a given claim precisely because they are methodologies based on evidence and sound reasoning. No such correctives exist for religious beliefs precisely because they are not based on a methodology, but instead based on blind assertions, or faith. It is like driving a car without a steering wheel, and the fact religion can get away with holding this profoundly mistaken double standard about knowing what is actually true without demonstration is the very problem with it. Any credible scientist will tell you up front what exactly it would take to disprove their theory – like finding rabbit fossils in Precambrian rocks to disprove the theory of evolution, or things suddenly “falling up” to disprove the theory of gravity. Few if any religious apologists will ever be honest enough to describe what it would take to disprove their theological convictions. This is understandable from their perspective since they do not want their faith claims falsified. While scientists are often criticized for their arrogance, and there have certainly been and continue to be some very arrogant scientists, at least genuine, credible scientists are open to disproving their own and others’ theories, while religious apologists almost always are not. This is evident in the beliefs of several apologists in the “inerrancy” of scripture. Such “perfect” scriptures supposedly inspired by the Creator of the universe cannot be changed in the minds of the faithful. However, to merely assert “truth” from “authority,” personal opinion, “special powers of perception,” “special personal experiences” and “revelation” – the way those of faith claim to “know” their “truths” is the height of arrogance when they assert “the truth” with no means to actually verify or demonstrate the truth or falsity of their claims. There are no doubt those of religious faith who have profound experiences, just as those without religious faith do, but to assert as fact these experiences to be the product of a given religious or spiritual figure or a god is a move they cannot make without genuine, credible, and verifiable evidence or sound reasoning to demonstrate the truth of that claim.
The bottom line is, if religion is going to be of any value in discerning what is actually true, then religious claims need to be subject to testing and falsifiability, just the same as any other claim for truth or reality. Just like everyone else, religious apologists have to show their work to demonstrate how they arrived at their understanding, just the same as we ask this of students in school. Good teachers do not let students get away with mindlessly claiming that 35,000/8=4,375. They need to show their work to demonstrate how they arrived at their conclusion. Those who make religious claims need to be held to the same standard as those we hold to students – to “show their work” as it were, instead of mindlessly and lazily appealing to “authority” or “revelation” – neither of which can be proven or demonstrated to be true or factual. Religious apologists who would posit the “truth” of their claims without evidence or sound reasoning need to understand the fact they cannot hide behind cleverly contrived false “loopholes” such as the idea religion and spirituality are somehow “different,” and therefore “above” or “beyond” the same standards of falsification as everything else we verify as fact and truth in the natural world. They cannot justify their epistemological double standard because while not all religious claims have to do with life in the natural world, many religious claims do have to do with life in the natural world such as our human origins, the origins of our planet and the universe, why we get sick and die, etc. Since these claims have to do with life in the natural world, they are therefore subject to testing and falsification, just the same as every other claim or hypothesis for reality in the natural world, and is the reason why the copout false “loophole” that spiritual and religious claims for reality are “above” and “beyond” science, evidence, and sound reasoning is false, and is one of the reasons why religious apologists cannot have it both ways.
Religious apologists need to simply produce the evidence and/or sound reasoning – to “show me the money” as it were, to verify or demonstrate the factual correctness of their claims, or stop speaking of so-called “truths” as though they are fact without backup from good evidence and sound reasoning. The bottom line is, those who would make religious claims simply need to play by the same rules of falsification as everyone else if they want to have any credibility. They need to stop acting as though they are justified by their special pleading and holding a false double standard which dictates they don’t have to play by the same rules of falsification as everyone else who makes truth or factual claims, and those of us who in commitment to the truth do play by those rules, or at least make an honest effort to do so, need to call others on it when they don’t. The fact is, many people make decisions that profoundly affect their lives as well as the lives of others based not on fact, but on faith – faith in ideas which could very likely be mistaken, such as the ideas we have “immortal souls,” that God “answers prayers,” or that we will all one day be resurrected from the dead to stand before the judgment seat of Christ on the “last day.”
While believers tend to conflate faith with fact to the point it often appears almost unconscious in their minds, as stated previously, it is a mistake in logic to make such a conflation. For if something truly is a matter of faith, then by definition there can be no evidence for it. Once you have genuine, good evidence for something, you therefore move into the realm of demonstrating fact, and no longer asserting faith. That is why faith and fact are not, and cannot be one and the same. It is possible to believe in something that actually is true, without knowing it is true because you might not be aware of the evidence supporting it. However, this is merely a coincidence – when you accidentally believe something is true that just so happens to also be a fact. Nevertheless, belief without evidence and fact with evidence, or even belief with good evidence are not the same things. That is why if a religious believer claims they have “evidence” for God, then it cannot be faith they are speaking of, but fact. So why do religious believers call it “religious faith” and not “religious fact” if there is supposed “evidence” which would verify the reality of God as religious believers claim? Why is it religious believers and apologists rationalize the absence of absolute proof of God by making excuses we have “just enough” “evidence” for God even though it is inconclusive? And by whose standard do we judge this so-called “evidence” to be “just enough” or “good enough” anyways? For many people, this “evidence” amounts to no genuine, good evidence whatsoever – nothing that cannot be chalked up to wishful thinking, confirmation bias, probability, and coincidence in light of sound reasoning and critical thinking. Why the need for this “now you see it, now you don’t” quality to religious and spiritual claims in which God gives some people supposed “evidence” galore thousands of years ago, and then decides to hide away and not reveal himself to others in miracles today as he did in Biblical times? Why does God have to play “hide the ball” and “peekaboo” with us instead of not playing games by simply revealing himself to us directly, making his existence 100% conclusive, as he supposedly did for the prophets and for many others thousands of years ago? If it was good enough for the prophets and the people of the past, why is it not good enough for us? Why do some get to know God directly from evidence, while the rest of us have to take the words of these supposedly “blessed” individuals on “faith?” Why can we not all have evidence? For if we all did have genuine evidence, then virtually all of the religious wars and squabbles over the past millennia would have never happened and continue to happen to this day since since there would then be no arguing against the fact of God and his will, just as there is no arguing against the fact of gravity and its effects. By making us have to guess and develop theories of God by him not revealing himself to each one of us directly and conclusively, God is therefore responsible for perpetuating these endless religious divisions and wars – quite a high price in the name of preserving “faith.”
When believers and religious apologists claim that the reason God cannot reveal himself to each one of us directly is because it would take away “faith,” this is simply a non sequitur. For the Bible states even Satan himself knows God exists, yet is still free to reject or not have “faith” in him. Faith in something or someone has nothing to do with whether or not we know as a matter of fact something or someone exists. The fact God revealed himself directly to others in the past, according to Biblical scripture, also demonstrates that “faith” has nothing to do with the clever argument for why God cannot be as obvious to us as the natural world or any other phenomena for which there is no question of its existence. Again, whether or not we know as a matter of fact something exists has nothing to do with true faith anyways, as will be explored in more depth in an upcoming chapter in this book. The bottom line is, “faith” arguments for why God cannot reveal himself to us directly are ultimately irrelevant because any being with integrity doesn’t play games with those with whom they wish to have a genuine relationship. They reveal themselves directly to those with whom they wish to have a relationship. This is clearly not the case with God, who instead of revealing himself to us directly, requires we accept the words of other so-called “authorities” of him on “faith,” even though these words are copies of copies of copies translated into different languages and “reinterpreted” countless times over millennia in which the likelihood of misunderstanding and even destroying his original message only increases with every new copy and “reinterpretation” of his so-called “sacred text.”
The reason for all of these logical fallacies, special pleading, double standards, rationalizations, and excuses is because believers know on some level they are not talking about fact at all, but faith. However, as stated previously in the last chapter, what is so dishonest about many religious believers is how they tend to conflate faith with fact, even while using the word “faith,” as though it were a virtue, while at the same time believing their faith claims to be true – to be factual. The dishonesty in not simply calling faith out for what it is – an opinion or a hypothesis about reality without good evidence, instead of facts about reality backed up by good evidence is in direct contradiction to what is often defined as a “Christian” or “religious” virtue to never lie, but to instead tell the truth. If a religious believer was serious about telling the truth, then they would call their faith for what it is – an opinion, or belief and hypothesis about reality without evidence, or at least good evidence, and stop conflating faith with fact. This conflation is perhaps the prime example of religious believers trying to have it both ways. Either something is a matter of faith, or a matter of fact. It cannot be both.
One good example of this “have it both ways thinking” is in the way it is often said by Christian apologists that Christianity is not a religion, but a relationship. The first problem of course, is the non-falsifiabilty of this claim to having a “relationship” with God. One may believe they are “experiencing God,” but cannot ever truly know they are “experiencing God” because such a claim is never falsifiable. They may well be praying to an imaginary friend and sincerely believe they are “receiving answers” to their prayers in an apparent “relationship” with this invisible, imaginary being, and whether they are talking to their imaginary fairy godmother who gets them out of trouble, the Tooth Fairy, Santa Claus, Krishna, or God, none of these claims can ever truly be known, but only believed since such claims are not falsifiable and are therefore meaningless assertions for knowledge of any reality outside the mind of the believer. The second problem for Christian theists is in holding the position that Christinianty is a relationship and not a religion, while at the same time telling us of the need to follow “inerrant scripture,” and “sound theology.” However if Christianity truly was a relationship and not a religion, why then would there be any need to follow the Bible and Christian theology in the first place? The real reason is because Christianity is in fact a religion, regardless of whatever unsound reasoning and contradictory logic is offered by Christian apologists. For if Christianity was just a relationship and not a religion, then everyone’s personal feelings about their “experience of God” and their “relationship” with Him and Jesus Christ would be all that mattered, and theology and scripture – the very pillars of most religions, would be irrelevant. Of course, if the full implications of this reasoning was to be understood by congregations, then pastors and priests the world over would lose their jobs, which is the reason why they continue to try to have it “both ways.”
Another excellent example of this “have it both ways” thinking is in the way believers try to speak of how the “spiritual realm” regularly affects and influences the “worldly,” physical realm. Examples of this range from the belief in “divine intervention,” the belief in God as “pure spirit” who created the world and answers prayers, the idea there are “eternal souls” that supposedly interact with people on Earth and leave our bodies after death, to angels who supposedly “watch over us,” etc. – none of which of course leave any verifiable evidence of their existence. While it is claimed by believers on the one hand the “spiritual realm” is “transcendent” and “beyond” time and space, they also claim this “transcendent realm” also affects the material world of time and space at the same time. Again – it cannot be both. Either the “spiritual” truly is “beyond” time and space of this world and can therefore have no effect on this world, or it does affect this world and is therefore nothing more than another aspect of reality that everyday people and scientists can therefore empirically verify like any other aspect of reality such as matter and gravity.
This dualistic way of thinking – of believing reality is comprised of two opposite and separate, essential “realities” – the “spiritual” and the “material,” as championed by Rene Descartes in the 1600s, has been thoroughly debunked by modern science which supports the idea that reality is a closed system – a single whole with no “outside forces” from the whole influencing it, which is a contradictory and therefore false idea anyway. The fact that characteristics often considered the domain of the “soul,” such as personality, character, and ability, are affected and altered by physical means such as drugs, alcohol, and brain damage, clearly demonstrate the physicality of our selves being what the brain does, and not an “unchanging” spiritual component. For if our personalities or “souls” were not material, then physical changes to the brain would not also produce changes in the “soul.” But we know as a matter of fact that physical changes to the brain do produce changes in the “soul,” or the personality of the individual. This fact, combined with the big conundrum Descartes faced about explaining exactly how this “non-material” and “spiritual” realm or “soul” could possibly interact with the physical body and the material world, is a question Descartes himself could never answer, and one that still has not been answered to this day by apologists, spiritualists, scientists, or anyone else. How can a non-material soul interact with a physical body to tell it what to do if the “soul” is “in control” of our thoughts and actions? For if something is beyond the material world, then it could therefore have no effect on the material world either. That is the logical, philosophical, physiological, and scientific dilemma facing all who would posit this contradictory claim of a “non-material” and “spiritual” realm which somehow acts on and affects the material world at the same time. Of course, in order for the religious to claim the existence of God and the soul, they must have it “both ways,” and so these impossible logical and physiological problems with these “spiritual” explanations for our selves or “souls” are simply ignored in order to maintain their beliefs. But ignoring these problems does not take away the fact we cannot have it both ways since the very idea of two opposite, separate, and “independent” realities as posited by this belief in the “spiritual realm” as separate and independent from the “material realm” is provably false by pure logic alone since if that were the case, then one “reality” would cancel out the other, which would result in a “reality” of nothingness, which is obviously false, as we have previously discovered several times before in this book. Simple math tells us that 1 (material world) -1 (spiritual world) = 0. The logical contradiction of dualism – the premise of reality being comprised of two opposite, separate and independent “realities” is why such a premise is false, and why religious apologists cannot have it both ways.
Christian apologists such as C.S. Lewis, William Lane Craig, and Lee Strobel, to name but a few, would not have a job as apologists if Christian and/or religious claims were supported by genuine, credible evidence and sound reasoning. If the scientific/intellectually honest community recognized the “evidence” for Christianity and religion as genuine, then they would embrace it and if necessary, revise their worldview, as any credible scientist or philosopher would in light of credible, peer-reviewed, double-blind tested good evidence that holds up to genuine testing and sound reasoning. That is the beauty of the scientific method. It is open to change in light of new evidence, unlike religious faith. But more to the point, why is it religious apologists feel the need to provide “evidence” for their faith in the first place? If what they believe is a matter of faith as they claim, then as stated previously, there is no evidence by definition, and they should simply accept that without further explanation or justification if they are genuinely okay with taking things on faith alone. Could it be they are genuinely not okay with taking things on faith alone? That they feel they need to justify their faith with “evidence” because they know factual claims about reality cannot be made without evidence… that faith alone is simply not good enough to make a factual claim? What other genuine reason would apologists have to feel compelled to provide so-called “evidence” for their religious beliefs? Even William Lane Craig has admitted he would continue to believe in God and Jesus Christ even if evidence and logic showed their existence to be false, since he says it is the Holy Spirit which “tells” him the “truth” of Christianity – which is precisely the point – religious apologists begin from faith, and then manufacture or manipulate apparent “evidence” and “logic” to support their desired conclusions since their worldviews are not supported by good evidence or sound reasoning, but by faith. However, the cognitive dissonance apologists feel between knowing the fact that evidence and not faith alone can tell us what is true, while wanting to take their truth claims on faith at the same time, is what drives religious apologists to invent “evidence” for their faith claims, while hiding or manipulating genuine evidence that invalidate their claims. The bottom line is, this two-sided, two-faced behavior of religious apologists as just illustrated, proves the fact they are dishonest and lying to themselves – that even they know deep down it is evidence and sound reasoning that tell us what is factual and true – not “faith alone” as they claim. Behavior is everything. For if religious apologists did not value evidence or reason deep down, and thought “faith alone” was “good enough,” why then would they manufacture or manipulate evidence and create misleading and convoluted logical arguments to support their desired conclusions?
Again – it is convenient for believers who do not wish to have their faith claims falsified that so-called religious “evidence” is never observable to third parties, since it is always either something going on inside the mind of the believer, or someone else’s story we are told to take “on faith” – not something going on in the outside world that leaves actual evidence everyone else could empirically verify, and is therefore not subject to testing and falsifiability, rendering their hypotheses useless for explaining reality. Genuine scientific and philosophical hypotheses about reality are falsifiable, and if they aren’t, they are rejected due to their inability to explain anything. If a drug is claimed to “work” whether you get sick, get well, or stay the same, then you have proven nothing about its effectiveness or lack of effectiveness. This same non-falsifiability of religious claims, such as the idea every prayer is an “answered prayer” whether the answer is yes, no, or wait, also explains nothing about whether prayer works or it doesn’t. While the non-falsifiability of religious hypotheses appears to shield them from being destroyed because they cannot be disproven, it is the very fact they cannot be disproven that destroys their credibility. The true strength of a hypothesis is shown in one which can be disproven, yet is not disproven even after thorough testing. “Thou shalt not put God to the test” is a threat from the “Divine Word” not to question the authority of God, but to simply believe without questioning. If God was real, then he could be put to the test, and would be proven true. Ironically enough, the fact God cannot be put to the test is precisely what makes the hypothesis for his existence a meaningless explanation of reality. A credible being would welcome being put to the test – not admonish others to not put them to the test, because a being with any integrity would value the freedom of others to think for themselves, and to discover what is true through their own inquiry.
The fact we are admonished by religious scripture to not put God to the test tells us all we need to know – to not question because if we actually thought about this, we would discover it isn’t true. All of this admonishment demonstrates there is obviously something to hide – the truth. The only reason to not test things is to shield them from criticism and falsifiability. If something is true, it passes the test. If it isn’t true, it fails the test. It’s as simple as that. The admonishment to not put God to the test is a copout designed to keep us from discovering the truth. Again – either a claim is a matter of fact, or a matter of faith. It cannot be both, and is yet another reason why religious apologists cannot have it both ways.